Showing posts with label Memoir. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memoir. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Review: My Sergei: A Love Story by Ekaterina Gordeeva and E.M. Swift

In the 1980s and 1990s, the greatest names in pairs figure skating were Ekaterina Gordeeva and Sergei Grinkov, from Russia.  For nearly a decade, they dominated their sport, winning gold medals at the 1988 and 1994 Olympic Games, and turning professional to great accolades.  Gordeeva and Grinkov (or G and G, as they were playfully known) were the poster children for the "image" of the pairs skaters: the tiny, childlike female skater and the strong male partner a whole head taller than her.  They were skaters, they were best friends, they were lovers.  Their lives were a virtual fairy tale, until November 20, 1995.  On that day, while practicing a routine, Sergei suddenly collapsed on the ice and died of an undiagnosed heart condition.  He was 28 years old. 

A widow at age 24 with a two year old daughter, Ekaterina was left with the pieces of her shattered life, wondering how to move on and learn to live again without the partner she had had since the age of 11.  The result was this collaboration with E.M. Swift, My Sergei: A Love Story.

Ekaterina tells both her story and Sergei's, intermingling stories of their childhoods, of growing up in the Soviet Union, learning to skate and their pairing together.  The book truly is a "love story", living up to its subtitle -- Ekaterina brings the reader through their courtship, marriage, and foray into parenthood with their daughter, Daria.  Their brief but illustrious figure skating career is described throughout; the book would be incomplete without it.  

But Ekaterina's real purpose in this collaboration is the "celebration of a life" -- finding a way to move past the pain of Sergei's early, tragic death and find joy in the life left to her and her daughter.  She expresses her fear and grief at the prospect of living the rest of her life without him, yet by the end, she has learned to accept her future.  

As a figure skater, I read this book as a child, barely knowing who Gordeeva and Grinkov were.  This book has the distinction of being the first volume to ever make me cry -- and I must confess that I cried again in reading it now, for the first time in probably ten years.  It is a beautiful memoir, something that would touch even someone who has never laced up a pair of skates.

Rating: **** and 1/2

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Review: Into Thin Air by Jon Krakauer

Please Note: There will be spoilers here in this review.  I don't know if I can adequately review it without putting in some spoilers.  So.  If you haven't read this book yet, and plan to in the future (and I HIGHLY recommend you do!), then I would close your browser and skip this review for now.

In 1995, freelance writer and adventure-seeker Jon Krakauer was selected by Outsider magazine to travel to the slopes of Mt. Everest, the highest mountain in the world, and write a feature article about the "consumerization" of mountain climbing, along with its effect on the world's tallest mountain.  This mission would require Krakauer to leave his home and travel to "Base Camp", the lowest of the camps on Everest, and observe guides and their "clients", the wealthy men and women who were paying dearly ($26,000  per head) to be helped up to the summit.  Outsider magazine, sensing a story among the hype of the wealthy elite to climb Everest (even the ones who were grossly unsuited for it, except for the small detail that they had the cash to blow), asked Krakauer to report on it.

Krakauer, a mountaineer himself who had dreamed of Everest since childhood, asked if the magazine would pay for him to "take the story to the top", so to speak, and climb the mountain to the summit, following the paths of his guide, famous Everest mountaineer Rob Hall, and the other "clients" who would be summitting from all over the world.  Outsider accepted his proposal, and Krakauer set out with a team of climbers (guides, professional mountaineers, rookie mountaineers who were paying out the nose to be guided up Everest, and the Sherpas who were employed to help) to spend six months acclimatizing and summitting Mt. Everest, in early spring of 1996.  The "final summitting" happened on May 10th, 1996.

What happened in the twenty-four hours in which these men and women summitted Mt. Everest has become famous as one of the greatest tragedies to ever happen in mountain-climbing history.  A hurricane-force storm came upon them, and through a series of incidents that, taken separately, would have not been much cause for alarm, together caused an unspeakable tragedy that haunts some of them to this day.  Eight climbers died in a single day on the mountain, fifteen in all in the month of May, 1996.  Those who survived were left stunned and reeling, wondering how such a thing could have happened.

Into Thin Air is a large expansion on the article that Krakauer wrote (read it here; I did before I read the book), was largely published, as he explains, in an attempt to get some closure on what had happened.  Krakauer wrote his original article when he still did not have all the facts about what had happened to people he had considered teammates and friends, and he apologizes for the gaps and errors in the original article.  Attempting to set the record straight, he gives a blow-by-blow account of what happened in the weeks leading up to the disaster, and the great tragedy of May 10-11, 1996.  His feelings of guilt (however justified or misplaced is left up to the reader to decide) are difficult to read at times.  I could tell as I read that he was writing while still dealing with an incredible sense of futility and guilt regarding the accident, when as a "client" and not a guide, it was not technically his responsibility to be out saving lives.  However, Krakauer illustrates that he possesses a sense of morality and obligation to his fellow man that some other mountaineers (such as those who left climber David Sharp to die on Everest ten years later) seem to desperately lack.

I finished Into Thin Air with a sense of hopelessness that I had not expected.  Krakauer's original mission in writing the article for Outsider was to create commentary on the booming business of experienced guides charging wealthy clients (most of whom had almost zero experience and no business whatsoever climbing the highest mountains on earth) to literally drag them up to the summit.  Krakauer argues that the use of bottled oxygen (without which, only the most experienced climbers could manage to summit) creates a "security blanket" for those who are not experienced enough to go without it, and keeps them flocking to and paying guides to bring them up to the top.  Without experienced people to lead them, and without the use of bottled oxygen, Krakauer argues, those who have no business being on Everest would more than likely get discouraged and quit the climb far before they reached the so-called "death zone" (altitudes higher than 8,000 meters where it is impossible to sustain life for long periods of time).  But with the high marketability of Everest and its location between two of the poorer nations of the world, Krakauer reports sadly, it is unlikely that either of these rules will be implemented any time soon.  Until that time, any rookie climber (and indeed, some of the more experienced ones) will still remain in danger every time they attempt to conquer Everest.


I put this book on my poll on The Nest Book Club, asking which of five books I should read next, and it was the clear winner.  I would like to thank those fine ladies for recommending it to me, as well as my father for loaning me his copy with the assurance that "It is one of the best books that (he has) ever read."  It is an amazing, although horrifying at times, tome, really driving home the point that human failing and mortality is nothing versus the elements of this world.

Rating: *****

EDIT: After three days of being unable to get this book out of my head, I have changed my original rating of four-and-a-half stars to five stars.  This was not a decision lightly made (I'm not in the habit of giving out five-star reviews), but I think it is only fair to Krakauer and to his book that I give the rating I feel it more than deserves.  Phenomenal.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Review: A Million Little Pieces by James Frey

A Million Little Pieces may be, at this point, one of the most famous contemporary American novels.  Its cover (the hand coated in sprinkles in front of a Tiffany-blue background) is easily as recognizable and famous as the  Twilight hands holding a red apple.  At this point, is there anyone who hasn't heard of James Frey's "memoir" of drug rehabilitation and the ensuing chaos that followed after the Smoking Gun revealed that he had fabricated some of his story?  Especially after Oprah brought him on her show and rolled him over the coals for "conning" her?  

I must admit that it was partially the drama that piqued my interest when it came to A Million Little Pieces.  Yet, having finished it, I have to say that I'm in no way interested in the possibility that Frey embellished his memoirs.  Because at the end of the day, it didn't change my opinion of the book, one way or the other.

James is 23 years old when he wakes up on an airplane, his face beaten and some of his teeth broken and missing, on his way to drug and alcohol rehabilitation.  He has been drinking since he was a child and doing drugs since his early teenage years.  He is, as he puts it, "an Alcoholic and an Addict and a Criminal" -- addicted to booze and drugs of all kinds (especially crack cocaine) and wanted in three states.  He is told that his body is in such rough condition that, if he chooses to use drugs or alcohol again, he will be dead in a matter of days.  Faced with the choice of death or attempting rehab, but having little to no faith in the AA "Twelve-Step Program", James begrudgingly agrees to give sobriety a chance.

This is not light reading.  Not even close.  James' story is gritty, and it's raw, and it's really tough to read at parts.  The chapter about his oral surgery (performed without any anesthesia or painkillers, since he is in rehab) was particularly graphic, and I had to skim those pages to keep my stomach from flipping over.  The writing style is..."different", I guess, would be a good word.  Like Frank McCourt, Frey chooses not to use quotation marks (or any punctuation, at times), which can make reading difficult at times, particularly when he's describing conversations between multiple people.  Yet, although the subject matter is tough at best, it is not a difficult book to read, and it does go relatively fast.

And though I think as a memoir (real or embellished) it's well-done...I can't really understand the huge buzz around the book.  I never personally felt the "can't put it down" pull to finish it the way I do with many books that I love.  Pieces gets easier to read, the more progress James makes, and towards the end I was finding it easier and more enjoyable to read.  I can't say I ever felt the obsession that Oprah and millions of other people claimed to have over this book -- which may be the reason why I can't understand what the big deal was that James Frey embellished the truth.